A Single Father Battled to Adopt Five Siblings Under Seven Before They Could Be Split Apart – The Judge Became…
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A Single Father Battled to Adopt Five Siblings Under Seven Before They Could Be Split Apart – The Judge Became…

Diane, my attorney, drew me into a small side room the moment the court recessed.

“They moved quickly, Carter,” she said. “They arranged everything overnight.”

“How quickly?”


“Three transport vans are scheduled for Friday. The children will be sent to three different counties.”

I set the folder of receipts on the table, but my hand refused to let it go.

Five days. That was all they were giving me.

“Diane, tell me the truth. What are my chances in there?”

“Honestly? They are slim. The judge does not usually approve single applicants, especially young applicants with no parenting experience.”

Before I could answer, the door opened and Beverly, the senior caseworker, entered with a clipboard.

“Carter, may I sit down?”

“Please.”


She sat and folded her hands in the practiced way social workers often did.

I had seen that same posture across a desk many years earlier, and my stomach tightened before I could prevent it.

“I want you to understand that I am not your enemy,” she said quietly. “I have been doing this for 22 years. I have watched good, kind people take on more than they could handle, and I have watched children pay the price.”

“I understand, Beverly. I really do.”


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“You have no spouse or co-guardian. You do not currently have medical coverage that extends to five dependents. You converted part of your workshop into living quarters, Carter. The court needs proof that it is a safe home for young children.”

“I built solid oak bunk beds. I insulated the walls, installed smoke detectors, and had the electrical system inspected. I installed five car seats in the van last week. I also contacted a pediatrician on Elm Street, and she agreed to accept all five children as new patients.”

Her expression stayed the same, yet something behind her eyes softened for a moment.

Then she looked down at her clipboard.


“I would like to speak with Eli alone, if that is alright.”

Diane nodded before I could reply.

A minute later a court aide brought Eli into the room.

He looked at me first, seeking reassurance, just as he had done every hour for the past three weeks.


“It’s okay, buddy,” I told him. “Just answer her questions honestly.”

He nodded once and sat down.

Beverly leaned forward and asked him about school, food, and whether he felt safe with me.

Eli answered in a whisper I could barely catch while his thumb rubbed the ribbon in tight circles.

When the aide took him back outside, the room felt heavier than before.

Beverly stood, thanked me with genuine kindness, and left.


Diane waited until the door clicked shut.

“Carter, there is something we need to discuss.”

“What is it?”

“The state’s attorney is going to ask you a personal question. He will ask about your background and why you are doing this.”


I felt my jaw tighten.

“He can ask whatever he wants.”

“Carter, listen to me. I have read your file twice. There are gaps that the state’s attorney will notice. If there is something you have not told me, now is the time.”

I stared at a water stain on the ceiling and tried to breathe.


“I have carried this for 20 years, Diane. I have never even told my closest friends. I don’t know whether I can say it in a room full of strangers.”

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  1. B
    Bill
    Thank you, Loved it!!
    Reply 3 months ago
  2. KG
    Kitty Grobler
    They need to stay together on e they grow older and become young afults tjeu will remember him for the good deed he had done and would also love him as their bigger brother and his family he never had these children became his family
    Reply 3 months ago
  3. LB
    Linda Brown
    What a beautiful and amazing story. A perfect Dad for the five siblings. God Bless each of you as your family lives a happy life. 💞💞💞💞💞💞🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
    Reply 2 months ago
  4. DC
    Darlene Colburn
    Great story! It actually happened in my family. My aunt died in childbirth of her 7th child. Within 3 days her husband died in a work accident. My other 2 aunts divided the 7 children between them and got the 7 children together weekly, so they could grow up. together. My two aunts had children of their own too, but managed to keep the 7 kids out of foster care and together frequently. It is a sad and tremendously difficult situation for all.
    Reply 2 months ago
  5. MR
    M Rosen
    This is very heartwarming. May God bless this man and his family.
    Reply 2 months ago
  6. TF
    Tammie Freerksen
    Awesome news and Congratulations to Carter and the five kids. I would love to read more on this as to if he got full level custody of them all and how they all are doing today.
    Reply 2 months ago
  7. M
    Margaret
    Would love to see him get the children . An wonderful man!
    Reply 2 months ago
  8. M
    Margaret
    He has a big heart
    Reply 2 months ago
  9. M
    Margaret
    An honest man
    Reply 2 months ago
  10. M
    Margaret
    Needs to get them. They are wonderful with him
    Reply 2 months ago
  11. M
    Margaret
    Tell me the answer
    Reply 2 months ago
  12. AH
    Annette Hernandez Davila
    Beautiful story. Totally admire Carter and I know he will take great care of these children and it will be a healing of his own past experience 🙏🙏
    Reply 2 months ago
  13. S
    Sheila
    It was God's way of keeping them togather thanks
    Reply 2 months ago
  14. TA
    Terri Anderko
    Beautiful story. Working as a CASA (Cout Appointed Special Advocate} I've seen a child adopted and placed in a home. I've thought of this child often. I wonder how she is now. I'll never know because the adopted mother didn't want me to see the child. That was years ago.
    Reply 2 months ago
  15. SM
    Soufiane MohammadyAuthor
    NICE
    Reply 2 months ago
  16. SM
    Soufiane MohammadyAuthor
    THANKS FOR ALL
    Reply 2 months ago
  17. Y
    Yvonne
    I experienced my two sisters being taken from my brother and I when I was eight. We met again in our late teens.
    Reply 2 months ago
  18. P
    Pam
    I would take care of children so they could be together. I would have no problem with it but when you try to adopt a child all the sudden it becomes more about how much money you have than about would you like a boy or a girl or you will to take a siblings so they can stay together. They ask about your finances and why do you want to take care of someone else’s child or do you want a gay child or just a regular child or what is your political views and a bunch more nonsense questions. The question should only be is what age or ages or your looking for and do you want a boy or a girl . Have you ever done this before and how did it help your relationship with the child. Question you would think that would help them understand why you would like to do this and if they could trust you and if you would make a good parent for the child// children that you would like to adopt. They should ensure you that they have the child best interests and not their wallets. Yes I would love to adopt one or take care of a child that mother is having a hard time with or having thoughts about hurting them so she could get help and get better so she could take care of them herself I take care of them.
    Reply 1 month ago

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